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Women Who Fake
Peter James

Why do women fake?

Some do it to avoid disappointing their partner. Some women wish to avoid continued intercourse, big load and fake orgasm to bring things to a conclusion. A lot of women are given the message that they are "less than" women if they do not have an orgasm. Some women realize big load that their partner is really trying and want to reward his efforts even though they didn't come.

Some women are afraid of big load damaging their partner's ego... Let's face it, some men DO feel mighty sensitive if his partner doesn't come.

What can I do?

You can make yourself an accessible person to your partners. big load Make sure that you never say insulting or belittling things to them. You can simply tell them that you DO care how they feel but you cannot always tell if they have had an orgasm. Let them know that you will be more than happy to do whatever will make it easier to come, and that if they don't fake it, it would help you to know what they do and don't like. big load Point out that if they DO fake it, and if you can't tell, it doesn't mean you don't care but it DOES mean that you won't know.

If it's something as simple as taking more time, you're home free. Just extend the foreplay.
If it's that she needs a different position, or only experiences orgasms with oral sex, big load that is certainly something you can work on.

Always let your partners know that you want them to experience as much pleasure as you do, big load and that you would like to know what you do that feels good, or that they don't care for. Let them know that you won't have hurt feelings, and it will help you to please them.
If a woman you're with fakes it after you have sincerely communicated this to her, it is her issue and not anything to do with you. big load
If you find sex a way to share and communicate pleasure, and your partners know this, it should be good every time, even if one of you doesn't always orgasm.

"Was it good for you?"

Paradoxically enough, big load if you're not sure if your partner really came, and you ask her "honey, was it good for you?", you will often only irritate her. Even worse would be to ask her "Did you come?" We all like to feel that our partners are paying attention to what we're feeling and experiencing in sex. It is harder to read women because their orgasms do not include ejaculation - no woman needs to ask "honey, big load did you come?" because she knows he did.

Although communication is the key to resolving this situation, it often never gets addressed.
For one thing, a lot of men are very sensitive about their bedroom skills, and are likely to respond with defensiveness or anger when told that their partner did not orgasm. big load These men often either blame the woman ("you're not woman enough") or simply make sure she knows that it isn't his fault by making regrettable statements ("my OTHER partners had no complaints").

If your partners are comfortable enough with you, you can determine more of what they really feel. big load But if you want your partners to trust you enough to communicate, you must be careful not to belittle or blame. Remember that it is harder for a woman to achieve orgasm, big load and that this is not your fault. Most likely she does not think it is your fault, either. She just feels sort of let down.

Can a man tell if a woman fakes an orgasm?

The best way to tell if a woman has faked an orgasm is by the way she acts afterwards. big load Women usually take a couple minutes to "come down" after good sex and an orgasm. If the woman you're with is immediately peppy and full of energy, she might be faking it.

Most women like to cuddle after sex, but a woman who does not orgasm often does not feel as cuddly. big load In fact, she's often rather energetic at a time where all that energy does not make sense - right after you made love. She may want to make coffee, or do a little cleaning. She will not feel close with you, and she won't feel relaxed.

As sexual tension builds, so does adrenaline. When we orgasm, the body releases chemicals that relax the tension. big load That is why men often fall asleep, and women seem dazed and dreamy right afterwards. big load A man or woman who has felt sexual tension build and has not experienced release will still be under the influence of the adrenaline.

"I have been married for 20 years. big load My wife just told me that she has never experienced an orgasm when we were together, but she didn't tell me because she didn't want to hurt my feelings. big load I don't know what to think. I love my wife, but she's been hiding this from me for more than 20 years!

Why wouldn't she just tell me?" A lot of women fake orgasm. Some women in their 40's or 50's have been faking with their husbands for the entire duration of their marriages. big load Almost every woman has faked it at least a time or two. Which means that almost every man has experienced a woman orgasming who wasn't...